So I’m not much of a reader, but I love a good audiobook I can listen to those almost as much as I listen to music. With that being said if you haven’t already you should definitely read or listen to “Girl Wash Your Face” by Rachel Hollis. It is a great book and that says a lot coming from someone who honestly hates reading and let me tell you why:
The first thing I noticed is that she sounds like she is talking to us as if we are one of her friends and it is super relatable. I loved that! Because of this the book really touched me in ways I didn’t see coming. There are parts where I laughed, reflected and even cried! She comes across so humble and down to earth and it makes you want to really hear what she has to say…literally. I loved how she also incorporates her faith in Christ into her stories and the book as a whole. That made this even more of a connection for me by making me reflect on Jesus’s purpose and role in my own life.
Someone else’s opinion of you is none of your business.
When she says “Someone else’s opinion of you is none of your business” I was dumbfounded. It makes so much sense. Why worry about what the other person has to say about you as long as you know who you are and can live with that especially since our ultimate judge is Jesus Christ himself. That one sentence empowered me more than you could ever know. It gave me a little jolt of confidence and got me thinking why I let so many little insignificant things get to me if it was said behind my back it clearly wasn’t meant for me to know and I know from self-validation that those things aren’t true and don’t define me. She really hit home when she said; “Some days are not about what you get done, but who you empower.” I don’t know about you, but that struck home for me. We sometimes get so caught up in thinking of our list that we have to were we forget to enjoy the moment and lift each other up. Because we are all struggling in this life and tearing each other down isn’t doing anything to help that at all. It makes me want to be more kind with my words, more thoughtful. To make sure that I think before I speak in a way that Christ would want me to. I know it sounds crazy that I could get all of this out of a simple book, but it is so so true and real. I love the fact that she takes us through her life story up until now and I found a lot of similarities in our stories surprisingly. I think it made me also realize that race doesn’t always play a factor either because girl we are all struggling. Me and African-American woman could see myself in a White woman’s shoes and tell myself I’ve been there before. Dumbfounded! I say all this to say please read or listen to this book you may be pleasantly surprised and remember that it isn’t always about what you get done, but who you empower and that God has a purpose for each and every one of us.
Some days are not about what you get done, but who you empower.